Turning to the cross doesn't always offer a warm hug by a halo-ed angel. Sometimes, it offers questions, questions not meant to ashame or destroy but rather to build and elevate to a better perspective.
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It is not enough to just speak in tongues. Being filled with the Holy Spirit is not exclusively tied to the speaking in tongues. Tongues alone can not convert men. Tongues alone cannot change the world. Tongues alone cannot change situations! There is need for more!